When parents face challenging moments with their children’s identity, the instinct to help can sometimes lead down harmful paths. The ongoing Supreme Court case Chiles v. Salazar has brought critical attention to conversion therapy, a practice that promises solutions but delivers devastating consequences for families and young people.
Conversion therapy represents any attempt to change a young person’s sexual orientation or gender identity. Despite being marketed as gentle, faith-based counseling, every major medical organization in the United States has unanimously condemned these practices. The American Psychiatric Association, American Psychological Association, and American Medical Association all reject conversion therapy as fundamentally harmful.
Research reveals the profound damage of conversion therapy. A comprehensive study found that young adults who underwent these interventions experienced dramatically worse outcomes than their peers. The statistics are heartbreaking: 48% attempted suicide (compared to 22% who didn’t experience conversion efforts), 33% reported higher depression rates, and individuals showed lower self-esteem, reduced educational attainment, and decreased life satisfaction.
The financial burden of conversion therapy is equally shocking. A 2022 JAMA Pediatrics study estimated the annual cost of these interventions at $650 million, with associated economic burdens totaling an estimated $9.23 billion. Families have reported spending thousands of dollars on programs promising transformation, only to witness their relationships crumble.
The truth of conversion becomes painfully clear when examining how these practices actually impact family dynamics. Many practitioners employ destructive techniques that blame parents, suggesting that parental behavior somehow causes a child’s identity. Rather than strengthening families, these approaches create deep resentment and mistrust that can take decades to heal.
The American Psychological Association’s comprehensive 2009 review found no credible evidence that conversion therapy successfully changes sexual orientation or gender identity. Even the most celebrated “success story” study was later retracted by its own author, who acknowledged fundamental research flaws.
A 2023 Journal of Adolescent Health study highlighted the extreme risks, showing that exposure to conversion therapy increases suicide attempt likelihood by 55% and more than doubles the risk of a young person running away from home.
As of 2025, 23 states have implemented protective laws preventing licensed mental health professionals from subjecting minors to these harmful practices. These laws don’t restrict religious conversations or family discussions about values, but ensure that trained professionals cannot implement practices rejected by medical experts.
The absolute truth about conversion is that family acceptance, not forced change, protects young people. The Family Acceptance Project demonstrates that when parents support their children unconditionally, those young people experience better mental health, stronger family relationships, and greater adult success.
Organizations like PFLAG offer resources for families navigating these complex conversations, emphasizing that genuine support means loving children as they are. Sound therapy helps young people understand themselves, never starting from the premise that their identity is fundamentally wrong.
The Supreme Court’s current examination of conversion therapy isn’t just a legal matter—it’s about protecting children, preserving family bonds, and ensuring that love remains unconditional. Parents must recognize that the most excellent protection they can offer is unwavering acceptance.













